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You need to try to find a play partner. Although I think you are defining “dating” wrong. Any “relationship” in kink is called a dynamic…and by relationship I mean partnership. From what I understand, you are wanting a partner to explore these kinks and tasks with but without the typical structure of submission and Dominance, without the romance, feelings, or sex.
A play partner can check these boxes. You get to decide and consent to what you want to do. So you just need to find someone who also agrees and is understanding of what type of things they can expect from you. Just make sure you communicate and make sure their expectations match yours.