Are your feelings wrong? No. Are they crossing a line? That depends on what you do next. It’s not wrong to feel things. Attraction happens, but you’re not being fully honest with your Domme or the daughter. You’re in a D/s dynamic built on trust and communication, and this situation needs both. Your Queen doesn’t know how you’re feeling about her daughter, and it sounds like she may not be okay with it. That’s something you need to talk to her about. Then there’s the daughter. Serving someone without their knowledge, especially when arousal is involved, can cross consent boundaries. If you’re doing it just for service, that’s fine. But if you want recognition, attention, or acknowledgement, then she deserves to know. You’re not sick, and you’re not a bad submissive. But this is a moment to course-correct. Talk to your Queen. Be honest. Because consent, communication, and transparency matter here.

Some do...some don't. You'll need to talk to the specific girl to find out her preference.

Brains are weird. Kinks don’t always come from real experiences. Sometimes your brain just latches onto an idea and goes, “Yeah, that’s hot.” Could be the humiliation, the musk, the whole getting taken care of thing. Who knows? If it’s been a fantasy for years, it’s just something that clicks for you, and that’s all that really matters. No need to question it too hard. Just enjoy what you enjoy!

The safest place to find people with similar kinks is probably Fetlife. But you can't really be anonymous on there, because safety and vetting potential play partners is important. Anonymous kink play is very risky and not something I'd recommend.

When creating a BDSM contract for switches, the focus is on flexibility, balance, and making sure both partners feel supported. Unlike traditional Dominant/submissive contracts, a switch dynamic needs something that reflects the ability to alternate roles. A good contract should make it clear who will take on which role and when, while still allowing room for spontaneity and adjustment. It’s important to include responsibilities for both the Dominant and submissive roles, with an emphasis on trust, respect, and safety, no matter who’s in charge during a scene. Adding sections on pre-scene negotiations, limits, and aftercare helps keep consent and emotional well-being at the center of your dynamic. A well-thought-out contract doesn’t have to be formal or rigid. It should be collaborative, easy to update, and designed to make your dynamic clear, safe, and enjoyable for both partners. --- A crude example may look something like this:--- ### **Switch Dynamic Agreement**__ This agreement is between [Partner 1] and [Partner 2], signed on [Date]. The goal is to set clear expectations, respect boundaries, and keep our dynamic safe and enjoyable as we explore switching roles. This isn’t legally binding, it’s just a way to make sure we’re on the same page.__ We both agree to take turns as Dominant and submissive, deciding who’s in which role before any scene. To keep things safe and comfortable, here are our limits:__ - **Hard Limits (Off-Limits Activities):** [Partner 1’s Hard Limits] [Partner 2’s Hard Limits] - **Soft Limits (Activities Requiring Extra Discussion):** [Partner 1’s Soft Limits] [Partner 2’s Soft Limits]__ We’ll use safewords during scenes to make sure communication stays clear. The safeword to pause is [Insert Word], and the safeword to stop completely is [Insert Word]. Both of us commit to respecting these safewords, no exceptions. __ Whoever is in the Dominant role will focus on safety, clear communication, and respecting limits. Whoever is in the submissive role will communicate honestly, provide feedback, and use safewords if needed. Aftercare is just as important to both of us, so here’s what we each need after a scene:__ - [Partner 1’s Aftercare Needs] - [Partner 2’s Aftercare Needs]__ We’ll check in and review this agreement every [Timeframe, e.g., 3 months] to make sure it still works for both of us. Either of us can bring up changes or adjustments anytime. We also agree to keep the details of our dynamic private unless we both decide otherwise.__ By signing this, we’re committing to creating a fun, safe, and respectful dynamic where we both feel heard and supported.__ **Signatures:** [Partner 1 Name] _______________________ Date: __________ [Partner 2 Name] _______________________ Date: __________