Ask Me Anything

The only bad question is the one not asked.

Is there something you’ve always wondered, but been too scared to ask? Well, now’s your chance. Ask me anything you would like to know about Kink or BDSM, and I will do my best to answer or point you in the right direction. And don’t worry, all questions are anonymous!

Your question is saved and will appear when it is answered.

Curiosities So Far...

  • Curious Kinkster asked:
    on May 12, 2025 4:46 pm
    will a bondage gear store let you try on the restraints before buying. will they put you in bondage to see how it feels?
  • Curious Kinkster asked:
    on May 10, 2025 3:18 pm
    So is there REALLY such a thing of “having an orgasm just by penetration”? Howwww?
  • Curious Kinkster asked:
    on May 6, 2025 12:52 am
    Why does my dominatrix want me to do squats?
  • Curious Kinkster asked:
    on April 25, 2025 6:11 am
    My wife says she gets nothing out of the bdsm/ D/s I want. I do everything for her, her nails hair coloring, all the cooking help with cleaning, all maintenance chores but she is not willing to do for my but keeps saying she has been unfair. She says I should find someone to meet my desires and we should divorce multiple times but always apologizes
    • kinkycuriosity replied:
      on April 25, 2025 6:13 am
      This sounds like a deeper issue. Marriage counseling might really help.
  • Curious Kinkster asked:
    on April 25, 2025 6:04 am
    My wife admitted knowingly violating my hard limit now I cannot trust her
    • kinkycuriosity replied:
      on April 25, 2025 6:08 am
      I'm sorry that happened to you. Trust is a hard thing to repair. If it's something you want to work towards, then you need to start with communication. Talk to her about it. Advocate for yourself.
  • Curious Kinkster asked:
    on April 16, 2025 12:47 pm
    i want to treat my wife like a sexy dog tell me what i do
    • kinkycuriosity replied:
      on April 16, 2025 3:04 pm
      You talk to your wife, communicate properly, make sure she has given full consent, and then you start to introduce elements that both of you equally enjoy.
  • Curious Kinkster asked:
    on April 7, 2025 3:44 am
    I am a 33 year old male, and I have a long term girlfriend, 40, that I live with and she is also my domme, or Queen as I call her. Male chastity is now becoming a permanent thing in our life. My Queen takes me out of the cage and edges me multiple times on at least a semi daily basis as she prefers me steadily aroused and attentive. Its fine with me and I’m happy to do whatever my Queen likes. I should also mention she has a 19 year old daughter that is very similar in personality, style and is also very beautiful like her mother. I love serving my Queen, as she is my life. Naturally I also love serving her daughter just as much which my Queen is perfectly happy with. Obviously I don’t have a sexual relationship with her daughter but sometimes, since I’m so aroused from the steady edging, I can’t help but notice her attractiveness and get very aroused in my cage when she’s around. Her daughter lives at my Queens other home by herself, and she isn’t as observant as Queen but I still have exuberance to do anything she likes also. When we stay there I find myself cleaning her toilet, shower, changing garbage, vacuuming her room and detailing her furniture (all which I do for Queen at our home). Usually, her daughter doesn’t notice most of the servitude which is kind of hurtful even though I don’t technically serve for recognition. I find myself just wanting to do more for her until she notices. Queen doesn’t know about my arousal at times toward her daughter but I don’t think would like it. Any advice on how I should continue things? Are my feelings sick? Is it wrong? Let me know. Thank you for reading all this!
    • kinkycuriosity replied:
      on April 7, 2025 8:44 am
      Are your feelings wrong? No. Are they crossing a line? That depends on what you do next. It’s not wrong to feel things. Attraction happens, but you’re not being fully honest with your Domme or the daughter. You’re in a D/s dynamic built on trust and communication, and this situation needs both. Your Queen doesn’t know how you’re feeling about her daughter, and it sounds like she may not be okay with it. That’s something you need to talk to her about. Then there’s the daughter. Serving someone without their knowledge, especially when arousal is involved, can cross consent boundaries. If you’re doing it just for service, that’s fine. But if you want recognition, attention, or acknowledgement, then she deserves to know. You’re not sick, and you’re not a bad submissive. But this is a moment to course-correct. Talk to your Queen. Be honest. Because consent, communication, and transparency matter here.
  • Curious Kinkster asked:
    on March 24, 2025 12:02 am
    Tonight my man asked me a question. He never asked before. He asked if he could nut on my face, and I did allow him to the whole time. He was telling me how pretty and beautiful I was. I guess my question is what made him want to do this? Was it a control thing? Or is this just a sexual thing all men want to do?
    • kinkycuriosity replied:
      on April 7, 2025 8:52 am
      It’s not something ALL men want, but for some, it’s a big turn-on. It can be a visual expression of Dominance, and sometimes it includes some degradation or humiliation. Other times, it’s just about intimacy and the shared moment. The key is that he asked, you said yes, and it felt good for both of you. That’s what matters most.
  • Curious Kinkster asked:
    on March 16, 2025 7:44 am
    Do girls like puking from deepthroat
    • kinkycuriosity replied:
      on March 16, 2025 8:02 am
      Some do...some don't. You'll need to talk to the specific girl to find out her preference.
  • Curious Kinkster asked:
    on March 5, 2025 3:47 pm
    I have this kink that I’m not even sure it is a kink. I want to do things for a women while I am naked. It doesn’t seem to be exhibitionism because im not tying to have sex while they watch and it’s not really being a nudist because it’s more than being free and naked around other groups of people. I describe it as sensual or erotic nudity. My question is how do I find women to experience this that isn’t a dating or hook up site or just going to a nudist resort where most people are coupled up.
    • kinkycuriosity replied:
      on March 10, 2025 5:23 pm
      Because your kink is super specific, you aren't going to be able to find a group of erotic nudists. You are going to have to find a group of kinksters, in person or online, get to know them, discuss your kinks with them, and then find the ones who are interested or open to the same kinks.