What would frustrate you most?
Which environment sounds most comfortable?
When you think about being a switch, what feels most important to you?
What appeals to you most about being a switch?
What makes a dynamic interesting?
What sounds most appealing?
What keeps relationships interesting?
What attracts you to a role?
Someone asks whether you're more dominant or submissive. What's your honest answer?
In a new dynamic, what matters most?
Which statement feels most accurate?
Years from now, what would make you feel like you've grown as a switch?
What do you value most in a partner?
How do you usually approach labels?