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BDSM Kink Checklist — Kinky Curiosity
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The KC Kink Checklist

Work through each category at your own pace. Rate every activity honestly. There are no right or wrong answers. When you're finished, download your results as a PDF to keep for yourself or share with a partner.

It's completely normal if you've never heard of some of these activities. If you're unsure what something is, look up the definition before making your selection so your results are as accurate as possible.

If an activity doesn't apply to you, simply leave it unrated.

The Rating Scale

0
Hard Limit — completely off the table. No exceptions.
1
Soft Limit — Outside my comfort zone, but I'd consider it for the right person.
2
I'll Do It — Not something I'd do myself, but I'm willing if my partner enjoys it.
3
Occasionally — I enjoy this, but not all the time.
4
Yes Please — I like this and want it often.
5
Hell Yes — major turn-on! I want it as much as possible.
0 rated
Optional — appears at the top of your PDF.

For Dominants: Rate each activity based on what you enjoy participating in or incorporating into your dynamic, including activities you enjoy having your submissive do.

For Switches: Rate each activity based on the role you most enjoy for that activity. Some activities may have different ratings depending on whether you're acting as a Dominant or a submissive, so choose the perspective that best reflects your preferences.

Optional — personalizes your PDF title.
Notes, context, or anything you want your partner to know. This appears at the end of your PDF.
Your answers stay on your device — nothing is stored or sent anywhere.

Done? Get your partner to fill one out too.

Have your partner complete their own checklist, then upload both results to the KC Partner Comparison Tool. Instantly see where you match, what needs discussion, and where your limits differ.

One-time $7 access. Nothing stored, nothing recurring.

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