What makes you feel the most secure with someone?

What makes a dynamic feel sustainable to you?

When you imagine your ideal dynamic, what stands out most?

How do you handle conflict in a dynamic?

What kind of guidance works best for you?

When things are going well, what keeps you engaged?

What drains you the fastest in a dynamic?

What do you need most after an intense interaction or scene?

If something feels off in a connection, what do you need first?

At your core, what are you really looking for?

How do you naturally respond to structure?

What makes you feel most unsettled in a dynamic?

What makes you feel valued in a dynamic?

How do you prefer expectations to be handled?