When things are going well, what keeps you engaged?

How do you prefer expectations to be handled?

How do you naturally respond to structure?

How do you handle conflict in a dynamic?

When you imagine your ideal dynamic, what stands out most?

What makes you feel the most secure with someone?

What do you need most after an intense interaction or scene?

What drains you the fastest in a dynamic?

What makes you feel most unsettled in a dynamic?

At your core, what are you really looking for?

What kind of guidance works best for you?

What makes a dynamic feel sustainable to you?

What makes you feel valued in a dynamic?

If something feels off in a connection, what do you need first?