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The Brat Test
When you're bored, what happens?
You stir it up, then blame the chaos on fate.
You relax and chill.
You think of things to stir up.
You find something to stir up.
You stir something up until someone reacts.
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Someone gives you the “don’t start” look. How do you respond?
Start exactly when they look away.
Start immediately and smile enthusiastically.
Look away and avoid eye contact.
Play innocent in a sarcastic way and pretend you don't know what they are talking about.
Smirk, but then agree.
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You are told “Don’t make that face at me.” What happens?
You make a dramatically worse face just to test them.
You stop immediately.
You make the most exaggerated face possible and hold eye contact.
You make a slightly worse face.
You try to control your expression.
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How do you apologize when you KNOW you caused the problem?
Sincerely apologize “I am so sorry.”
Blame them “Listen… you knew this would happen.”
Hesitantly take credit “Oh…sorry”
Jokingly apologize, “Hehe my bad.”
Don't apologize "I'm sorry you feel that way.”
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Someone asks you to “be patient.” What do you do?
You wait for a little and then ask “How much longer?”
You do the opposite of waiting.
You immediately say “I am being patient” while not being patient at all.
You wait but sigh dramatically.
You wait quietly.
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How often do you do things just to get a reaction?
Sometimes, if the mood hits.
Often, reactions are entertaining.
Constantly. The reaction is the point.
Rarely, and only by accident.
Never.
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