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The Brat Test
Someone asks you to “be patient.” What do you do?
You do the opposite of waiting.
You wait for a little and then ask “How much longer?”
You wait but sigh dramatically.
You immediately say “I am being patient” while not being patient at all.
You wait quietly.
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Someone gives you the “don’t start” look. How do you respond?
Look away and avoid eye contact.
Play innocent in a sarcastic way and pretend you don't know what they are talking about.
Start exactly when they look away.
Start immediately and smile enthusiastically.
Smirk, but then agree.
None
How do you apologize when you KNOW you caused the problem?
Hesitantly take credit “Oh…sorry”
Don't apologize "I'm sorry you feel that way.”
Jokingly apologize, “Hehe my bad.”
Blame them “Listen… you knew this would happen.”
Sincerely apologize “I am so sorry.”
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You are told “Don’t make that face at me.” What happens?
You make a slightly worse face.
You stop immediately.
You make a dramatically worse face just to test them.
You make the most exaggerated face possible and hold eye contact.
You try to control your expression.
None
How often do you do things just to get a reaction?
Rarely, and only by accident.
Often, reactions are entertaining.
Never.
Sometimes, if the mood hits.
Constantly. The reaction is the point.
None
When you're bored, what happens?
You stir something up until someone reacts.
You find something to stir up.
You think of things to stir up.
You stir it up, then blame the chaos on fate.
You relax and chill.
None
Time's up
